Thomas H. Heckman, 72 of Monaca, passed away on October 17th, 2026, following a brief illness. He was the son of the late Howard and Jane Heckman, also of Monaca, Pa. He is survived by his wife, Phyllis (Grahek) Heckman and his daughter, Sara Jane Heckman, both of whom took care of him, advocated for him and encouraged him.
He is also survived by his aunt, Amy Coombs, his brother-in-law, Philip (Rose) Grahek, his nephews, Sam, Zachary and Jessie Grahek, his nieces, Lisa (Nathan) Hutchinson and Michelle (Michael) Botelho and their families, as well as many relatives, cousins and friends.
In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his aunts and uncles: Audrey (Paul) Elmer, Nancy (Bill) Lyons, Paul (Etta) McElhaney, Sam, John, Caroline and Dove Coombs; as well as his sister-in-law and brother-in-law, Roberta and John Wilson and many relatives, cousins and friends.
Thomas was a 1972 graduate of Monaca High School and enjoyed many class reunions and sharing memories with friends. He worked as an expeditor for Reno Bros., Inc. until he suffered a stroke in 1996. After a period of rehabilitation, he returned to a full and active life, performing various duties at home and enjoying many holidays, vacations and social events with his family and friends. He especially enjoyed the cottage, water sports, watching Pittsburgh Pirates and Steelers games, physical therapy, word searches, fireworks and music. He was a member of Mary, Queen of Saints Parish, which is where he loved participating in the Saturday night Mass and the Rosary.
Friends will be received on Sunday, October 25th from 1-5 p.m. at Simpson Funeral & Cremation Services, 1119 Washington Avenue, Monaca, who was in charge of his arrangements, and where departing prayers will be offered on Monday, October 26th at 10:30 a.m. followed by a mass of Christian burial at 11 a.m. in St. John the Baptist Catholic Church, 1409 Pennsylvania Avenue, Monaca. Interment will follow in the parish cemetery.
Those wishing to make a memorial contributions in Thomas’ memory are asked to please consider St. Jude Hospital or the Jared Box Project, 129 Fenwick Drive, Port Matilda, PA 16870.









